“The 5 Top Reasons Why This Spiritual Practitioner Does Not Cast Love Spells” (From My Exposing the Darkside of Spirituality Series)

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Spellcasting is a very powerful act. We all do it. We who identify ourselves as spiritual practitioners, shamans, mystics, pagans, magicians and witches, that is. We do it for ourselves. We do it for our friends and loved ones.  And, if we have a spiritual business like I do, then we do it for our clients as well.  However, there is a caveat to spellcasting. *Isn’t there one always?*  And, the caveat here is that with great spellcasting power comes great spellcasting responsibility.

Many spiritualists in the spiritual community take heed to this principle. Unfortunately, there are many who do not. Well, at least not until the boomerang effect happens. At that point, you have no choice in the matter but to partake of that spiritual ass whooping that your ass wrote a check for, a check that it could not cash because it bounced due to insufficient funds! Yeah, you may want to handle that better next time. *chuckles* 😊

And, although I am not one to judge, I do however hold myself to a higher standard when it comes to practicing the craft, whether it be for myself or for others. So, because of this self-imposed standard that I have placed on myself, there are five top reasons why I do not cast love spells, never…ever…under any condition or circumstance, on an unwilling and/or unknowing participant, that is!

With that being said, the first reason why I do not cast love spells on an unwilling and/or unknowing participant is because it violates free will. Yes. I am an advocate of protecting free will, both mine and others. I am what you would classify as a high vibrational spiritual practitioner and I am on assignment for “team love and light.”  This side is worth clarifying, in my opinion, because not all spiritual practitioners, magicians and the like are about controlling and manipulating others.

However, there is a lingering notion that all of us workers of the craft are evil individuals who set out to harm others. This is not only a deception, but an overgeneralized stereotype that has been cast upon us all, and this stereotype needs to be dismantled. Hopefully, I can do my part with that. But, don’t get it bent. I do understand seasons. I understand that there is a time for peace and a time for war. So, despite my love and light character, I am not afraid to “light your ass up,” and give you “that work” for the sake of restoring peace and love! And trust me, I have lit up quite a few assess…repeatedly! It comes with the territory. 😉

The second reason why I do not cast love spells is because, if you have to resort to casting a love spell (or hiring a practitioner to do so) on an unwilling and/or unknowing individual, then you are incredibly desperate, creepy, and clearly out of touch with reality about how this whole “love thing” works! And I don’t cast for such individuals. I do, however, offer some helpful advice. And that advice is: instead of trying to manipulate someone into being in a relationship with you via love spells, you should opt out of the dating scene altogether and dedicate all your free time to deal with your incredibly low and damn near non-existent self-esteem.

Think about it. If you cast a love spell on someone without his or her knowledge or consent, how would you ever know that this person would ever be attracted to you? You wouldn’t. Likewise, how would you know if this person would ever be interested in forming a relationship with you in the first place if the situation or circumstances were to happen more natural and organically?

Again, you wouldn’t. So, you would basically be participating in a lie, and the fact that you would be ok with that lie, and willing to live with that lie to satisfy your “thirsty-assness” is so cringe-worthy that you should just flog yourself repeatedly and mark your forehead with the letter “A” for “assclown” so that everyone in public would know to keep themselves, their loved-ones and their beloved pets far, far away from you!

After that, you should call Iyanla to “fix your life,” because you are “50 shades of f*cked up!”  And lastly, you should go to the nearest Walgreens or Rite-Aid and stock up on lots of Vaseline and Jergens, (coconut oil for the ladies, err…extra virgin, preferably) because you are going to need it whilst you take matters into your own hands. At least, until you get your sense of integrity and self-esteem back in tact! *clears throat* But again, no judgment here. Because I don’t judge, you see? *chuckles* 😊

The 3rd reason why I do not cast love spells on unwilling and unknowing participants is because I have been a victim myself of an unwelcomed and (at first) unknown love spell, and it sucks! Yes. That’s right. It sucks. And not in a good way. There’s nothing worse than having your free will violated by having a love spell cast on you by someone (or a spiritual practitioner on behalf of someone) to whom you wouldn’t otherwise give the time of day. And, that’s the thing. Most of these individuals who resort to casting love spells in order to “attract” someone of interest to date or to be in a relationship with are society’s bottom feeders. Period!

These bottom feeders are your typical narcissists, your predators and abusers, your sociopaths and stalkers, and your everyday garden variety of “bat shit crazies” that I unlovingly refer to as the “Children of the Corn! In other words, these are the type of individuals that no person in his or her right mind would even pursue to date in the first place! Unfortunately, however, these low vibrational, irresponsible degenerates are typically the ones that cast love spells on unwilling and unknowing individuals. And, the nutcase who cast a love spell on me is no exception.

Ah, I can humor myself about it now. Now that the spell has been broken, that is. But it certainly was an experience that I would never subject anyone to, because this fool was and still is a piece of work. One day I plan to write a book about it. And I know that it will be a best-seller. But as the saying goes, all things in divine timing. However, just to give you a little glimpse of the “freak show” that I was dealing with, let me give you some of the characteristics of this guy that cast (and continued to re-cast for over 10 years) an unwelcomed love spell on me.

At first glance, this “gentleman” appears to be an ideal love interest on the surface, especially to the uninitiated and/or to the spiritually unawakened (as I was when this delusional toad first cast a love spell on me). He is currently a well-known, "C-list" singer/entertainer in the music industry and fairly handsome. I mean, handsome if you’re into that urban rapper, “male thot,” I’ll-screw-anything-with-an-orifice-without-washing-my-balls-and-ass-first-because-I’m-a-savage” kind of handsome! *lmao* 😄

I’m not into “these types,” for the record!  And, although I am currently "happily off the market," as the saying goes, the point has to be made. And, the point is: this particular guy was not, nor would he ever be someone I would be interested in…EVER! To the contrary, I prefer “the accountant and golfer-types,” the types that played ice hockey and Lacrosse in college, not basketball or football! *clears throat* So ummm, clearly this guy was barking up the wrong tree! But I digress.

So anyways, this guy? The one who cast a love spell on me against my free will? He appears to be a pillar of his community and among his music industry peers. He travels all over the world singing love songs that praise the qualities of strength, loyalty and feminine beauty of women. But this is just a façade, a mask if you will. Beneath the mask is his true self, the self that I, as a clairvoyant, or seer can truly see.

Lurking behind the veil is a codependent, passive-aggressive narcissist who feeds on the essence and love energy of unsuspecting women, particularly creatives and those with a high degree of spiritual gifts and talents. So, not only is this “ghetto Casanova” a depraved narcissist, but he is a spiritual predator as well!

So, the question is, “Why would a seemingly charming, handsome and well-known musician resort to casting a love spell on any particular woman when women throw themselves at these types of guys all the time?” Simple. Because just like his industry mates, this particular musician gets bored with women that he can easily conquer. Instead, he prefers to target women who, for whatever reasons, are not interested in him! It’s all about the challenge and the chase with these narcissistic, self-entitled types. And, in the music industry—not to mention the entire entertainment industry as a whole—these types are a dime a dozen. *Yuck!* 😒

Besides this fact, it is because he is a psychic/emotional vampire, a love fraud and someone who does not have a creative bone in his body. It is because he is someone who is incapable of producing music, an idea, or anything of value for that matter without first siphoning the essence (and downright copying the work) of these special breed of unsuspecting and unwilling women.

And, it is because he is someone who is incapable of experiencing any real modicum of love and affection without first mindf**cking these women, who like me believed that some genuine and authentic feelings had actually been developed. Again, not because the feelings were authentic and natural, but because he had placed a love spell on me!

And, as if all of this is not bad enough, this male musician who cast an unwanted love spell on me is also a drug addict. Yes. You heard me right. He is a drug addict hontey! And, word on “these spiritual streets” is that pills, cocaine and marijuana are his drugs of choice. He is also an alcoholic, a sex addict, and a porn addict who is secretly married (a standard situation among musicians in the industry, by the way) with a harem of baby mamas, a slew of side chicks and side d*cks! *Yeah, I said it!* And, a swipe away from an ample list of barely legal “Insta-hoes.” Yet this depraved, “love sick” freak has the time to be casting a love spell on me! *Puke* 😠

Like, can we say walking poster board for a trip to the free clinic and the Center for Disease Control, ladies and gentlemen? But clearly, I must be the one who is out of her mind. I mean, how could anyone resist such a catch?  After all, he’s so handsome. He’s a “bad boy” in touch with his emotions, and he’s a singer in the industry coming to a concert near you! How could I or any woman not want this kind of a guy to cast a love spell on her?! *currently gagging* 😒

And, to make matters worse, this guy, this certifiable POS who calls himself "The Love(r)" and a "King" suffers from a cluster of mental disorders, bi-polar disorder being one of them. And, let me just say for the record that I mean no disrespect to any individual who may suffer from mental health issues. There is help and therapy for that, which should absolutely be sought out if needed. No exceptions!

However, I make this point only to demonstrate that this guy who placed a love spell on me was and is an individual whose predator nature is so incessant and unstoppable, not only because he is an individual who possesses absolutely no moral character or integrity, but because he is mentally and emotionally unstable, and therefore, unable to acknowledge that casting love spells on women without their consent is abusive and violating!

Add to this the fact that this guy who cast an unwanted love spell on me, and who unfortunately suffers from mental illness, is also an initiated Mason and a closeted black magician! Now, allow this to sink in for a few seconds, and this should give you just a little glimpse (because trust me, there is more) of the persistent, long-standing, arduous “shit show” and spiritual battle against this “lunatic with a mic” that I have had to contend with!

Fortunately for me though, as I have mentioned earlier, I can actually laugh about this whole matter now, especially since I am free of this spiritual maggot. Even though currently, at the time of me writing this post, he is still obsessing over me and trying to re-cast love spells on me! But the warfare that I have had to endure to free myself from this incredibly disturbed and delusional individual is one of the reasons why I am so wholeheartedly against casting love spells on unwilling and unknowing participants! Period!

The 4th reason why I do not cast love spells on unwilling and unknowing participants is because they often times lead to obsession and stalking. That’s right folks. When you cast a love spell on someone against that individual’s free will you are soliciting the assistance of dark, lower vibrational entities and spirits to bind the spell to the non-consensual target, because higher vibrational spirits and entities do not violate other’s free will.  Dark entities and spirits pervert and twist the natural order of things as well as one’s natural affections and emotions.

So, what you often end up with after casting that love spell on someone without his or her permission is not some harmonious, healthy and balanced affection towards one another, but the unstable and unbalanced emotions of control, abuse and obsession which, if not checked, almost always leads to stalking and/or worse.

I know of many cases where the spell caster who either casted the love spell or hired a practitioner (other than myself) to cast it, either ended up becoming extremely obsessed over his or her love interest to the point of mental and emotional instability. Or, the spell backfired in such a way to where the love interest became so obsessed and possessive over the individual that initiated the love spell, that the person couldn’t handle the situation and was begging to be left alone by the person, but to no avail.

Some of these cases have led to individuals having restraining orders placed on them. Other cases have led to the spell caster or the targeted love interest having to relocate to another state for safety and relief from the obsessed spell caster’s spiritual predation and attacks. There are also cases that I’m privy to which have led to incarceration due to acts of domestic violence, harassment and/or property theft and damage.


Sadly, one such case that I know about led to the male, love-obsessed spell caster committing suicide. I am fortunate enough, however, to say that I have no knowledge of such cases which have led to death by homicide during the time of the writing of this post.

And, last, but not least, the 5^th reason why I do not cast love spells on an unwilling and unknowing participant is because that shit can and often does backfire! Thankfully, I do not know this from personal experience. However, I do know from second-hand experience from having observed the aftermath of quite a few fellow practitioners. This includes the "ass monkey" who cast a love spell on me.

All such parties have reaped some serious karma for not using a high level of integrity and responsibility for casting love spells, either on their own personal behalf, or on the behalf of their clients for monetary benefit. One such female practitioner that I am an acquaintance of experienced dire karmic backfire for recklessly casting love spells for her clients. As a result, she has not only lost her home, but she has also lost temporary custody of her children who were taken away from her and relocated to another state to live with relatives who were willing to take them in.

So, ladies and gentlemen, for these reasons (and others not mentioned here) I do not cast love spells on unwilling and unknowing participants. The consequences for violating an individual’s free will is simply not worth the consequences. And believe me, the consequences will come, whether they be immediate, or down the road.

From my observation, when the karmic backlash hits a person later on after a significant amount of time has passed, the karmic backlash is much worse. This is because by that time, the person has built up a false sense of security in thinking that all is well and that they have gotten away with the deed, only to be hit doubly hard because that said backlash has accrued interest!

Also, because the natural order of people’s lives that have been manipulated and thrown out of balance has to now be brought back into order and alignment. And, to go through all of that just to be able to call someone “boo” or “bae,” someone whom otherwise would not even give your desperate, creepy ass any time out of their day, is just not worth it!

With that being said, how about you? Have you ever cast a love spell on an individual without his or her knowledge or consent? Also, are you for or against casting love spells? I would love to hear your opinion. Please 1. Join the One Wise Sage blog, 2. Share your favorite blog post on your social media, and 3. Post a comment! Again, JOIN, SHARE AND POST!

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~Sage, aka "Sage the Urban Witch"

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